Happy Lunar New Year!

Out with the dragon, in with the snake!

This past Year of the Dragon was HUGE for me and mine. We sold our family home, moved to a new place, married off both daughters in style and welcomed our son home after two years living abroad.

On those charts that measure stress-inducing events, well—we’d be off the charts.  But if there were an equivalent happiness-inducing chart, we’d be well off it as well.

And yet, I’m ready for a little slower-paced meandering through life.  Less lofty peaks to climb, fewer fireworks to launch. Fortunately, this is the Year of the Snake. Chinese astrologists say that forward progress in the Year of the Snake comes through calm, intuitive deliberation. Sounds good to me. I really did enjoy most of the excitement the Year of the Dragon brought, but now it’s time to slither along on solid ground sensing every delicious twist and turn that life has to offer.

I’m thinking it might be good to bring a snake totem or two into the house or my wardrobe to remind me that this is the year to be as wise and kind (yes, so says Chinese folklore) as a serpent.

Maybe with a powerful serpent rug from  Kelly Wearstler for The Rug Company.

Topped with the elegant faux snake skin Baby George Side Table by Oly.

 

And nearby a wise little snake pillow from Jonathan Adler?

Or a harmless snake charmer hamper from The Land of Nod.

For some out on the town snake charmin’, this lavish Alexander McQueen Python clutch would do.

And these glamorous diamond, pearl and ruby earrings from Sidney Garber would also be ssssspectacular!

 

 

Or I could keep it simple with a rosy little fella from Max and Chloe around my finger.

Perhaps enhanced by some scaly nail art.

 

 

Sssssssss. . .

 

 

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To Market, To Market

Inspiration paintings alongside Lulu DK fabric "Dancers"

On a grey February day, stopping by Design San Francisco was as invigorating as a scoop of lemon sorbet. Which, by the way, is also the name of Benjamin Moore’s Color of the Year.

Benjamin Moore’s Mary Hoffman shared the news about “emerging pastels” and the “softening of the palette”  at the beginning of this three day design conference formerly known as Winter Market and held at the San Francisco Design Center. Here are a few other highlights from Day 1.

Celebrity designer and potter Jonathan Adler says that “every home should have a classic foundation and eccentric punctuation.”  When talking about his “Muse” vase–one of his favorite punctuation pieces–he said that once he’d created it, he just knew it was right. “When a design is good, it looks like it was always supposed to be that way.”

Designer Lulu deKwiatkowski of Lulu DK showed some of her exquisite fabrics at Donghia and said that her best collaborations have come when she hasn’t initiated the partnership.  “I’m like one of those girls who never asks a guy out first—I find that works best.”

Attendees were in good spirits—perhaps because their clients are starting to commission projects again? At least the treats offered in all the show rooms seemed to indicate a move towards prosperity.  After recession-inspired years of bottled water and a tastefully displayed bowl of nuts, showrooms rolled out the hospitality.  For example, these French macarons at Kneedler Fauchere were as pretty as the beautiful new Rizzoli book on designer Rose Cumming, who at the beginning of her illustrious career charmingly said, ” I might become a decorator, but first tell me what that is.”

Here Chuck Comeau of  Dessin Fournir shows off some beautiful Rose Cumming fabrics and wallpapers.

Speaking of beautiful fabrics, “Rusty” came to Market all dressed up in this adorable Fortuny frock–which would also be showcased later on at the fundraiser doggy fashion show “Haute Dog.”

I ended the day at Hewn–an elegant new showroom opened just this past year after owners Kathleen Navarra and Jeff Holt closed their fabulous retail shop JAK Home–for a presentation on luxury mattresses from the Swedish company Hastens. Promising a better night’s sleep for the price of a luxury car, these handcrafted mattresses with their signature blue and white checks seem absolutely divine for a long winter’s nap—which is something the Swedes probably know a little something about.

On my way out the door,  I stopped at the cheery Eric Brand pop-up shop and took in the clever display of exquisite finishes. After starting with some “lemon sorbet” and ending with a little “orange sherbet,” I left Design San Francisco thoroughly refreshed.

 

 

 

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Shady Talk

For a house built in a canyon, our new place is surprisingly light and airy, unless you’re in our bedroom, which is dark and inspires hibernation most days of the year. That’s all well and good when Mama and Papa Bear want to retire for the evening, but in the January daylight it can be gloomy and depressing—even with two table lamps, two floor lamps and an overhead fixture dotting the room. Not that the overhead fixture helped much.

Made out of red fabric covered with black curlicues it was probably the height of hip in the 1980s, but now it felt sad and tired and a little bordello-esque.  On closer inspection, I recognized the hardware and the shade as products of one of my favorite Bay Area design studios—Sue Johnson Lamps on Solano in Berkeley.

So the quick fix was to replace the shade with a different Sue Johnson shade that was either more current or more timeless. Either way, something that would cast better light in the room. But not too decorative, given all the other shades in the room and the goal to make this room look lighter and less cluttered.

I headed over to Johnson’s shop and spent some time taking in all the beautiful shades and repurposed fixtures. Then with remarkable (for me) restraint I selected an ivory parchment shade that was both elegant and versatile.

Before adding in a white mica shade covered with parrots and assorted leaves. What can I say? Even classy kitsch calls to me.

The parrot shade was fun, but the goal was a lighter, quieter bedroom.  So back it went to the shop.  And the simple ivory shade, along with a pale blue duvet cover and some taupe linen shams from Pottery Barn, have created a bedroom that’s less cave-like.

Come summer, maybe I’ll invite the parrots back.  But for now, I’m happy walking into a space that’s as soothing as the winter fog that hangs in the stand of eucalyptus trees outside my windows.

 

 

 

 

 

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Last Minute Holiday Decorating Ideas

We’re down to the wire now people.  Less than a week ‘til Christmas and if your house is anything like mine, it’s covered in a staggering mix of wrapping paper scraps and powdered sugar. Time to take stock of what we realistically can do and what needs to go into our dreams of Christmas future.

Here are a few of my favorite, easy ways to pull your house together in the “Nick” o’ time.

Mix it up.  A hotshot professional florist once told me the best way to light a tree is to pick a color scheme and then vary the size of lights.  I’m a white lights kinda gal, but I love adding different shapes and sizes to my tree to add depth and sparkle.  Even if your tree is already decorated, think about adding one or two more strands of lights in larger or smaller sizes or shapes and see what a difference they make.

Simplify. Christmas decorations may be “driving the dark away” but they shouldn’t totally obscure it.  I like having a few spare decorative elements around to remind me that underneath all the fuss and muss this is the quiet, meditative time of the year.

Deconstruct.  In a similar vein, I prefer simple seasonal floral arrangements.  Gather 2-3 related vases and buy seasonal foliage in the same numbers, then instead of mixing them together place them side-by-side.  Breathe in, breathe out.

Light it up.  Years ago I went to a party where the host and hostess—young, broke artists—had gathered dozens of junk store glasses and filled them with white candles.  I loved the miss-matched nature of the holders and started gathering a few of my own. It was a sad Christmas Eve when a small snifter monogrammed with the name Audrey fell off the mantle and shattered.  Burn one fragrant candle as well. I adore Diptyque’s Pomander.

Decorate to Delight.  My inner child is completely entranced this year by a simple paper mobile by Danish Design.  When the stress of the season starts to get to me, I pause to watch it slowly turn in my entryway casting shadows by day and swimming in the reflected lights of my own Christmas tree and the neighbors’ porch decorations by night. Joy.

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Congratulations to Julie Woodfield of Simply Julie who won the ACE Hardware giveaway—she plans on using her $100 to add more garlands and window lights to her home—lovely.  Here are two other ideas for simple holiday decorations using things you find around your house or your own back yard from ACE’s design expert Julie Richard.

–Gather all the clear glasses vases you own. Fill them with either silver or glass balls before adding freshly cut tree branches.  If you want to give them a snow-kissed look, spray the branches loosely with white paint.

–Pinecones look beautiful painted as well.  Paint them with silver, gold white, or a combination of all three and mound them in glass, wood or metal bowls for an easy, elegant craft project.

Merry Christmas everyone!

See you in the New Year where I’ll be one son-in-law richer.

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Light it up!

It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas here at the House of Bliss. The front porch is dripping with white icicle lights and the back terraced garden is strung willy-nilly with colored bulbs, creating what my husband likes to call “our holiday light mullet.”

Yep.  Classy in the front and a party in the back. That’s the way I’ve lit up the holidays ever since our kids were little, and this year it’s been fun to deck our new halls with the old mix of white and colored lights.

Of course, it took a trip or two to Grand Lake Ace Hardware to pick up some new strands of lights, a few replacement bulbs–why don’t they make pink ones?–and a second outdoor timer in order to make the season bright. The next run will be for a front door wreath, cyclamen and mistletoe at the adjacent garden center.

I assume that you, too, are about to haul out the holly by way of a trip to the hardware store.  Fortunately, the helpful folks at Ace Hardware sent me a $100 gift card to bestow upon one of you lucky readers. Ho ho ho—a holiday giveaway!

So drop me a line by Monday, Dec. 10th about how you would use $100 for a holiday home makeover. I’ll pick a winner and publish some of your ideas in my next post along with some of my favorite decorating tips for the holidays.

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Wild Turkeys and Pilgrim Pugs

A few weeks ago I walked out my front door and ran into seven wild turkeys pecking at hidden treasures in the long grass on the banks of our front creek. Mindless of me, three of them marched up the porch steps to stand at my front door as though they expected someone to let them in for a pre-Thanksgiving feast.

Wild turkeys knock-knock-knockin’ at my door are not the only thing that’s unusual about this Thanksgiving.  It’s also the first one we’ll spend without a single one of our kids at the table.  Our oldest will be with her soon-to-be-in-laws on Long Island.  Our middle will be with kind friends of family in Boston. And our son will be in Peru with fellow Mormon missionaries, probably pie-less.

“We can never go back to . . .the families we were in our prime, to the things that we had all taken for granted,” writes Michael Chabon in a recent Thanksgiving essay for Bon Appetit that’s been on my mind this week. Read More »

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Girl Power

Watching the political duel that was the second presidential debate, I couldn’t believe the amount of testosterone on display.  The president, usually so suave and unflappable, came off as a vindictive bully.   Gov. Romney, abandoning his gosh-golly-darn colloquialisms, prowled the stage like a veteran combatant ready to wrestle the POTUS to the mat.

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Earth Time

If this graphic illustrating the history of Earth is accurate, human existence is as inconsequential as a plover’s feather. Which would be a bleak thought for a Tuesday if I hadn’t just spent several glorious Indian summer days at the beach.

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Swinging From The Trees

At the annual Quilting in the Garden quilt show held at Alden Lane Nursery in Livermore this past weekend, quilts hung from beautiful old oaks like a dapper giant’s freshly hung laundry. Each year the show features a professional quilter and this year’s quilting queen was Judy Mathieson, master of the Mariner’s Compass. Her exquisitely pieced quilts were displayed throughout the nursery, including the glowing “Bristol Stars” found here at the entrance. Read More »

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September Blues

Inspired by Chinese cloud paintingsThough this was supposed to be Tangerine’s year, the Blues Brothers (and their sisters Azure, Turquoise and Indigo) rule!  According to San Francisco seamstress Laurel Sprigg, blue is the color she’s stitching up most often for the interior designs of her fashionable clients. She attributes the ongoing interest in heavenly hues and patterns–like this new cloud motif pattern from Fortuny–to a continuing desire for peaceful retreats.    Read More »

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Kathryn Pritchett

writes about Things Elemental — where we find shelter, why we connect, what sustains us and how we strut our stuff.